Hi all,
This is really just some venting. I'm not sure anymore how to find a competent, confident and qualified caregiver. I have tried a few agencies in my area that had good ratings and am getting pretty awful people coming in to help. They don't have the intelligence, initiative or common sense to solve any issues on their own. I almost can't believe how bad they are and there is no way I'd feel comfortable leaving my Dad alone with some of them. I hate to say this but it's almost like they have some kind of learning disabilities. I have contacted the agency managers multiple times and nothing seems to be done about it or another unskilled person is sent to us.
It's so depressing. They are asked to do VERY little but what they are asked to do is necessary.
I don't know what to do, at this point.
Thanks for letting me vent :)
I was what you'd consider very overqualified for the job--but I needed flexible hours and had another job I was working around.
I was NEVER 'trained'. NEVER. Not even how to put a bandaid on.
I was paid $9 an hour and never received a raise. I worked holidays, weekends, whatever. I was lucky in that one of my families found out how little I was making and went to the company and worked out a 'private' raise for me so I was making closer to $15 an hour.
Many of the CG's don't have cars. Or licenses. Or clean records. Or don't speak the same language of their clients.
The turnover for any one client in the space of a year was 100%. Or super close to it. My client's family treated me like pure gold---b/c mom was a challenge and exhausting for the family. I loved her--but I got to go home at the end of the day.
Why is it so hard to get good workers? I would have to say that I never felt appreciated by my company, I was paid an abysmal amount of money and I was expected to be available 24/7.
I'm sure unimpressed with the CNA's that take care of my MIL. They've missed a lot of stuff and seem to be pretty poorly trained. Not my monkey, so I don't say anything.
Everyone complains about the money that is charged for in home care, but of that $39 an hour? Your CG is only getting about $12 of that.
To make matters worse my friend’s client has gotten progressively worse, to the point she should not be a home with an untrained aid. The level of care has increased dramatically, but my friend still gets minimum after 5 years!
These poor women are horribly taken advantage of. The good ones, like my friend, see it as a personal mission. She brings her client homemade cookies and does nice things for her. But I can see where others could get jaded and just do the bare minimum.
I have a couple of friends who are HHAs. Both of them are middle aged women who have raised families. I think they are both good at their jobs, but it is because they cared for children, handled emergencies, handled illnesses, made decisions, etc. Their training is life experience. I don’t think it would be out of line to request a mature, experienced woman from the agency. Good luck.
Here's how you get quality caregivers. Hire privately and offer quality pay. Not te insult wages that are usually offered.
Or if you're going to use a homecare agency, the first question you should ask is how much of what the agency collects for a caregiver actually gets paid to the caregiver. The answer to that should be at least 50%. If it's not then go with a different agency.
Homecare is mind-numbing, back-breaking drudgery work. The work is lousy and so is the pay. That's why the turnover rate is so high in caregiving. The people who usually do this line of work are either students who are going to move onto greener pastures, or it's people who couldn't get a better job.
You want quality, competent caregivers? It's going cost you. I did private care for a long time and named my price. Either the clients met my price and I worked for them or they did not and I moved on.
Please do not buy into the complete nonsense of it being "rewarding" and making a "difference" in people's lives.
That's the BS agencies tell their homecare workers because they won't do right by them.
Personally, I treat my people right because I know how it is and I'm not greedy. The same cannot be said for other agencies.
So if you want good help, pay for it. That's how you get it.
50 percent sounds fair to me but are there any agencies that can afford to do this? What is the overhead costs of running an agency?
I would think that if more people are satisfied with their services, then the agency has more clients, which results in more money. It boils down to if it is sustainable for them in regards to their overall overhead expenses.
I grew close to her during the year she worked for my parents. Her birthday was last week and I'm taking her out for lunch tomorrow and will give her a little gift.
I have met so many kind, compassionate people these last few years who were involved with my parents' care. The world is a better place because of people like these.
I went through at least 3 agency aids to eventually find 1 that was with us for 6 years until she retired. She was awesome and worth the work to find her and we made sure to give her enough hours to incentivize her to keep requesting us. After that, it was a parade of clueless people who looked at their phone every other second and had no sense that we were a paying client with expectations. There is still a labor shortage combined with a mass of Boomers needing more services, plus the govt is being stoopid about letting people into this country legally to work and have better lives.
For anyone who needs to hire agency aids, you must request people who are experienced in working with people with dementia, and any other specifics your LO needs tending to. But good luck with that. I would now go so far as to have them watch Teepa Snow videos so that they can have some understanding of what they're doing.
As for how much they're paid... like teachers, if you raise their rate it just gets passed on to us consumers since healthcare is not a charity. If the government subsidized it, we'd just pay more in taxes (and my property taxes, of which 50% goes to our schools, just went up by $1,000 for 2024). There's no miracle solution here since the govt can't just print more money.
Is Teepa Snow going to provide the financial incentive for a homecare CNA to be at the top of their work class?
I don't think so. I an an APCNA (Advanced Practice Certified Nurse's Assistant) which is about the equal to an LPN or an LVN. I know my business and have a long homecare experience.
If a client's family ever requested that I watch Teepa Snow videos for instruction, my friend I would tell them to stick those videos where the "snow" don't fall and walk away.
It's not the worker's fault. Homecare agencies are like pimps. They don't care if the caregivers are poorly trained or trained at all so long as they bring that money in. A homecare agency will send a worker onto an assignment flying blind clueless of what to do or expect. Believe me there is no "support" available the agency for that aide either.
I was a homecare caregiver for 25 years. Calling the agency if you need help or when there's an emergency is worthless because they aren't going to do a damn thing. Every aide knows they're flying solo and on their own every time.
Now I have my own business, I go out and open every case personally. I also introduce the caregiver to the client and family myself. My caregivers can reach me any time. This is not how homecare agencies operate for the most part.
Now I appreciate that there is a major labor shortage… inverted productivity due to more dependents in the population than producers… I am totally aware that our elders cannot comprehend the economic hopelessness & brutality anyone under age 50 is currently experiencing. So if a fast food restaurant is offering $18-$20 an hour to start, why would anyone of sound mind work for $15 to wipe the butts of angry old people.
The solution to my particular situation was hiring private pay caregivers. I’ve said this before - I am literally operating a small business specifically for my fathers in home care. Even with a background in business management/operations it’s complicated & exhausting. I really wish I could have utilized an agency, but the quality of care was in fact abysmal. This is not an attack on caregivers in a personal capacity, but rather the applicable care that is or is not provided.
I interviewed over a dozen applicants that I found mostly through local churches & work connections. I settled on 3 part time caregivers & scheduled them in ways that all can have 2 or 3 other clients. Only one was an actual CNA. For the others I purchased a used intro to nursing textbook that I keep in my dad’s place. Because I had 6 years of hands on wound & cancer care, etc from my previous forced family caregiver experiences ( plus I’m a licensed Holistic Health Practitioner & licensed Cosmetologist among other stuff) I did serious hands on training for my hired caregivers. By training them myself I was able to get the sort of care my father truly needs.
I looked into CNA licensing & here in California there are multiple programs available that will fully pay for someone to attend classes & become a CNA. The entire process can take as little as a month. When I think about the tens of thousands of dollars & years of education it took me to obtain my professional licensing & certifications… Now the government will pay for you to go to school for a few weeks & you can come out debt free earning more than Hairstylist with 20 years in the industry.
I do offer compensation that is far above any potential competition. My girls are paid every single week at $25 a hour to start, all food & beverages are covered during their shifts, paid Birthday Day off, are allowed to bring their pets with them to work & a holiday bonus. They have all holidays off & get plenty of little extras to show they are valued because it’s damn hard work. But they do not get healthcare benefits or paid time off. Now my one caregiver that’s a CNA frequently asks for pay raises but I’ve told her no & she free to find better pay - she’s still around… words gotten out in my dad’s condo community & I have people approaching me to ask to work for us. Turns out sometimes when you treat people fairly & respectfully, they will respond in kind. Not always, but the ones you actually want around will.
I truly believe the western world is currently in a crisis of caregiving that has only begun to emerge. The costs are simply too high & the only real solution any one can provide is financial destitution that is ultimately designed to obliterate the existence of a middle class for the direct benefit & profit of the investment class.
Care.com has been recommended here. Check with Jr. Colleges and Tech schools to see if they train aides and if so how can you hire one. If they have a Nursing program, is there someone who would likeva job. Neighborhood.com. Check with visiting nurse agencies to seevif they have a list of aides for hire. My job did.
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