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I don't know the circumstances of your actions, but I will ask this. Would it bother you if someone came into your home and removed your mementos? I would think that it would.
If her home is unsafe because of clutter, or hazards, then 'cleaning up' isn't an unreasonable action, but there may be repercussions.
What is her mental/physical condition? The reaction you are going to get is how agreeable (and understanding) your Mother is to your help. If I were you, I would expect to have quite a 'situation' on your hands, judging from my personal experience with my mother with Alzheimer's and her 'cluttered home'. My mother did NOT want me to touch any of her things, until I asked her if she wanted to DONATE some things to the homeless shelter and the child's garage sale!
What seems to you like a nobel gesture, may seem like a personal attack to your Mother. Unless she asked you to do so *(clean up) anything can happen.
But I will ask. Why would you want to remove her mementos? Garbage, junk, trash removal almost (ALMOST) anyone can understand, but mementos?
Also, some elderly have 'hoarding tendancies' and any and ALL things are important to them. You know the saying, "one man's junk is another's treasure'.
My initial guess is that it WILL upset your mother. Be careful what you discard, you may be throwing out more than you realize. ,
You never explained what she is coming home from. I know in my mom's case...I am only cleaning up things out of sight out of mind, not to disturb her psyche. I would not want anyone rumaging up my stuff if I wasn't DEAD yet...! As long as I was still coherent!
When my mother-in-law had to downsize and move from her little house to an asst living place, we had to get rid of lots of stuff. BUT she was in on what we kept and what she couldn't take with her. She hated the move (still does) but she wanted the family to have first pick of her stuff. So we got the family together one Saturday, with her there, and went through everything. The rest we donated. It was fairly painless, not to be confused with it being a 'big pain' which it was. :)
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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If her home is unsafe because of clutter, or hazards, then 'cleaning up' isn't an unreasonable action, but there may be repercussions.
What is her mental/physical condition? The reaction you are going to get is how agreeable (and understanding) your Mother is to your help. If I were you, I would expect to have quite a 'situation' on your hands, judging from my personal experience with my mother with Alzheimer's and her 'cluttered home'. My mother did NOT want me to touch any of her things, until I asked her if she wanted to DONATE some things to the homeless shelter and the child's garage sale!
What seems to you like a nobel gesture, may seem like a personal attack to your Mother. Unless she asked you to do so *(clean up) anything can happen.
But I will ask. Why would you want to remove her mementos? Garbage, junk, trash removal almost (ALMOST) anyone can understand, but mementos?
Also, some elderly have 'hoarding tendancies' and any and ALL things are important to them. You know the saying, "one man's junk is another's treasure'.
My initial guess is that it WILL upset your mother. Be careful what you discard, you may be throwing out more than you realize. ,